I know that I said that I was going to leave this alone. My nephew (D) and this older woman (T) thing has been killing me. He is now almost 21 so I was going to let him live his own life, but this chick is still loony. I mean, what woman does not want to talk to her man every day? She says that a text or two a day is sufficient. As of today, they have not spoken at all in about 10 days. What kind of crap is that!!??! Anyway, this time my nephew has his head on better about her. She wants it just casual and he can't do casual so he broke up with her by text. She refuses to accept this, but won't talk to him about it. She says that God can fix it. yadda yadda yadda. As far as he is concerned they are over and he is single again. They both have hidden their relationship status'. She did that days before he did. * so childish* So you'd think that I'd be happy right?

Well here is the kicker... Today a good friend of mine called me over between Sunday School and church to tell me something that was troubling her. T just purchased her first home and was in some need of landscaping so she called my friend's brother, TK, (who is also The Professor's brother) to give her an estimate. While he was there he was feeling like she was trying to come on to him. TK called his sister because he knew that D my nephew and T the older woman were in a relationship, according to facebook. She then asked him if TK had any friends to hook her up with. He felt really uncomfortable and didn't know what to say. So he got out of there and called his sister to see what was up and if T and D were still together. My informant told me that this happened about 2 or 3 weeks ago and that she didn't know how to tell me.

That HEFFA!!!  I knew she was no good!!! I want to mash her head into the floor and jump up and down on top of her. How could she do this to him? But that is how stupid she is though. TK, D's father and The Professor used to hang when they were teenagers and in their early 20's. That makes TK about 12 to 15 years older than T. What makes her think that her dirt won't get back to somebody!? I tell you, she's a fool. That is another reason she should not be with D.

I am posting this because I cannot tell my nephew about it. It would break his heart. She has already changed him and made him able to pull away from his emotions. This would really really devastate him. So this was my confessional. I have to leave this here.

Sassyme

Update....

I am still standing... a little weary from the battle, but still here. My dad came through surgery ok. Lots of pain, but they got the entire tumor. He also had 6 inches of his rib removed. My mom says that this is standard and I did not get to talk to the doctor, so I don't know. He is home now, so I am glad. This is about the first time that I hate living 2 hours away from them.

My kids are still the same. J is beasting at lacrosse, a game I still don't understand. He is one of the only black kids that play at his school. It really is a rich kid's sport. My goodness, the cleats were almost $100 on sale!!! He is having fun though and being fairly decent so I won't complain.

D is still my road dawg. He loves to go everywhere with me. I am worried about some of the kids that he is hanging with though. J said that he saw him smoking cigarettes  with them last month. His dad hit the roof. He thought that I meant weed and he raced over here. It was funny when D told him that he didn't have a say in his life since he had left us! Painful for my baby, but satisfying for me.

Work has been interesting. With all of the job cuts in the schools, everyone is on the defensive. Folks just trippin all of the time. I am trying to stay low because I need to keep my job! Little D's gotta eat.

Our single is coming out in 8 days. I am so ready. It will be on Amazon and iTunes as well as our Reverbnation page. I can taste my dreams about to come true!!!


My heart is a little broken because of Young Buck. I understand that he had to move on and date somebody that was actually going to sleep with him. No problemo. He has needs, what we had was fun, casual. But he has also abandoned our group. That is why my heart is broken. I cannot fathom why he would do that to us. The bum!

Nothing else really going on. I am so thankful and grateful for my dad getting through the surgery and my mom has been a real trooper.


I just wanted to post something because it has been a long while since I have posted anything. My life has been really boring anyway. (that's fine, I kinda like it that way)

Good night all... Maybe something interesting will happen tomorrow.