I know that I said that I was going to leave this alone. My nephew (D) and this older woman (T) thing has been killing me. He is now almost 21 so I was going to let him live his own life, but this chick is still loony. I mean, what woman does not want to talk to her man every day? She says that a text or two a day is sufficient. As of today, they have not spoken at all in about 10 days. What kind of crap is that!!??! Anyway, this time my nephew has his head on better about her. She wants it just casual and he can't do casual so he broke up with her by text. She refuses to accept this, but won't talk to him about it. She says that God can fix it. yadda yadda yadda. As far as he is concerned they are over and he is single again. They both have hidden their relationship status'. She did that days before he did. * so childish* So you'd think that I'd be happy right?

Well here is the kicker... Today a good friend of mine called me over between Sunday School and church to tell me something that was troubling her. T just purchased her first home and was in some need of landscaping so she called my friend's brother, TK, (who is also The Professor's brother) to give her an estimate. While he was there he was feeling like she was trying to come on to him. TK called his sister because he knew that D my nephew and T the older woman were in a relationship, according to facebook. She then asked him if TK had any friends to hook her up with. He felt really uncomfortable and didn't know what to say. So he got out of there and called his sister to see what was up and if T and D were still together. My informant told me that this happened about 2 or 3 weeks ago and that she didn't know how to tell me.

That HEFFA!!!  I knew she was no good!!! I want to mash her head into the floor and jump up and down on top of her. How could she do this to him? But that is how stupid she is though. TK, D's father and The Professor used to hang when they were teenagers and in their early 20's. That makes TK about 12 to 15 years older than T. What makes her think that her dirt won't get back to somebody!? I tell you, she's a fool. That is another reason she should not be with D.

I am posting this because I cannot tell my nephew about it. It would break his heart. She has already changed him and made him able to pull away from his emotions. This would really really devastate him. So this was my confessional. I have to leave this here.

Sassyme

Here We Go Again...

I thought that this crap was over!!! How desperate can you be? How stupid can you be? I have to let this go, but I need to get some things off of my chest first.

I just got a phone call from one of my best friends. She told me to go to Facebookand look at my nephew's page. And there it was, he is in a relationship with that old woman, again!!! Unbelievable. If you have no idea what I am talking about, check out this post .
Anyway, I knew that something was going on with them because D's sister told me that she thought that they were together. She also came to one of our performances this past weekend. No big deal. He is going to be 21 in June and she will turn 28 before that. I still think that they are stupid, but I was not going to make waves over this until I saw the Facebook post. They have been together for many weeks now, but did not tell anyone or post to Facebook until it was official. Official!!????!?!?! This is not the 10th grade! You should not think that a Facebook post as a way of validating your relationship. So that's the problem for me. His head should kinda still be in that kid mentality, but her head should not. She is knocking on 30! I know that I sound like a fool, but I don't want him to throw his life or these good years away on this hussy!

I have have talked to one of my best friends about this, so I will have to out this out of my mind. I can't let it consume me like it did last April. Anyway people will just accuse me of being jealous because I don't have a man. That is not my reason for my feelings and they don't know what I have going on either!

Thanks for listening. I have a long day tomorrow and I need to pray and get this off of my heart.

SassyMe