I thought that this crap was over!!! How desperate can you be? How stupid can you be? I have to let this go, but I need to get some things off of my chest first.
I just got a phone call from one of my best friends. She told me to go to Facebookand look at my nephew's page. And there it was, he is in a relationship with that old woman, again!!! Unbelievable. If you have no idea what I am talking about, check out this post .
Anyway, I knew that something was going on with them because D's sister told me that she thought that they were together. She also came to one of our performances this past weekend. No big deal. He is going to be 21 in June and she will turn 28 before that. I still think that they are stupid, but I was not going to make waves over this until I saw the Facebook post. They have been together for many weeks now, but did not tell anyone or post to Facebook until it was official. Official!!????!?!?! This is not the 10th grade! You should not think that a Facebook post as a way of validating your relationship. So that's the problem for me. His head should kinda still be in that kid mentality, but her head should not. She is knocking on 30! I know that I sound like a fool, but I don't want him to throw his life or these good years away on this hussy!
I have have talked to one of my best friends about this, so I will have to out this out of my mind. I can't let it consume me like it did last April. Anyway people will just accuse me of being jealous because I don't have a man. That is not my reason for my feelings and they don't know what I have going on either!
Thanks for listening. I have a long day tomorrow and I need to pray and get this off of my heart.
SassyMe
Ok 28 ain't old! LOL.
ReplyDeleteDid you tell him how you felt about her? Maybe that might help you move past it and get it off your heart. If you have then tell him again and I wouldn't sugar coat it either! He's gonna do want he wants anyway but if he does get burned (which we all are susceptible to with relationships) he can at least say, "Thanks Auntie for trying to have my back" instead of "Auntie! Why didn't you tell me???!!!"
Tell him how you feel then drop it. You will probably feel sooooo much better. Then go buy something cute for yourself to celebrate! LOL.
Eyes, I have taken your advice. He knows how I feel so I don't have to go there again. He and I actually have a "date" to go to a concert in a couple weeks. He told me that he wouldn't bring her to go because he knows that I would cut her. He even laughed about it. *shrug*
ReplyDeleteBut the best part of your advice was the shopping part, and have I been shopping! My Visa is almost worn out. Too bad too, because I had to cut my hours on my 2nd job... I guess there will be lots of Ramen noodles and turkey and cheese....
Glad to hear that! Do ya feel better?
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